Review of “The War for Kindness: Building Empathy in a Fractured World” by Jamil Zaki




First, thank you to Netgalley for providing me with an advanced copy of this book.

I had recently finished reading Sally Kohn’s book “The Opposite of Hate” so I couldn’t help but noticed  the similarities between the two works. Jamil Zaki is a psychologist and the tone of this book echoes that fact strongly. While Kohn’s book was many times conversational in tone, Zaki’s book took on an academic tone from the start. He references many empirical studies on empathy (which can lead to kindness) throughout the book. While Kohn focused on combating hate within others and ourselves, Zaki focused on empathy and how we can influence it within ourselves and others and how it influences our behaviors. Zaki’s department studies empathy a lot so it’s not shocking that the book revolves around this topic. As the book progressed, Zaki divulged more personal experiences into the narrative and I felt that added a more pleasant reading experience when I can connect with the author. My favorite part of this work was in the Appendices. He went through every claim that he made in each chapter, including the introduction and epilogue, and rated the claim on the evidentiary proof or validity of the claim. Most or all of books in the social sciences have a list of references or footnotes containing where information cited is found. Zaki has this as well, but rarely do I read a book that provides this type of breakdown of his claims. I wish all books did this to be honest. I went in expecting this book to be uplifting and hopeful for the future of our society and it was in a way, but it is clear that it requires us to put more effort into making our future better. I would recommend this book to fans of Kohn’s book “The Opposite of Hate” and other books on the topic of kindness, empathy, combating hate, changing the combative discourse of the media and society as a whole and self-improvement books. 


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Review of "The Rules Do Not Apply" by Ariel Levy

The Rules Do Not Apply The Rules Do Not Apply by Ariel Levy
My rating: 2 of 5 stars

I suppose I didn't have enough background information about the author, Ariel Levy, before reading this memoir because I didn't feel that it was relatable enough for me to get enough out of reading it. In this memoir, Levy divulges the details of the dissolution of her marriage and the horrible circumstances that led to her losing her son before he was even named. This book could've been horribly depressing and honestly at times, it was awfully close to being so. Levy spends a lot of time discussing how she copes with these "negative" events in her life. She goes into how she moves forward after what was essentially divorce, perhaps more accurately "conscious uncoupling" as Gwnyth Paltrow might say. My favorite quote from this memoir though was from an interview Levy conducted with Maureen Dowd: “I asked [Dowd] if she'd ever wanted children. She told me, "Everybody doesn't get everything." It sounded depressing to me at the time, a statement of defeat. Now admitting it seems like the obvious and essential work of growing up. Everybody doesn't get everything: as natural and unavoidable as mortality.” I would recommend this memoir to someone who has/had a partner with alcoholism or someone suffering the loss of a child. While the whole memoir may not apply to these people, they will get something out of reading it.

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Review of "Where the Crawdads Sing" by Delia Owens

Where the Crawdads Sing Where the Crawdads Sing by Delia Owens
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Owens's debut novel is another stunning epic story of a young girl, similar to The Great Alone, adapting to a wilderness without much assistance from others. In this case, the story begins in 1969, when two young boys find the dead body of Barkley Cove's favorite previous quarterback, Chase Andrews. We are then introduced to young Kya Clark, 6 years old in 1952, who lives in the swamp-like marshland near Barkley Cove, NC. Soon, she is abandoned by her family to live on her own in a shack away from town. A town where the people look at her like she's dirty and unworthy. Kya, who only attended one day of school, has to learn how to survive on her own despite the prejudices of the town and her lack of education. Delia Owens co-wrote two memoirs prior to this novel of her times of survival in the African wilderness with her husband. Her experience with isolation from civilization and surviving on the wilderness alone is echoed in the text of this book. She beautifully encapsulates the landscape of the marsh, putting the reader in the mindset of Kya throughout. This is a coming-of-age story of survival, love, overcoming obstacles and prejudices. Kya is an extremely likable protagonist and you'll be drawn into her story spanning from 1952 into the 21st century. Owens alternates chapters between before and after the death of Chase Andrews and the reader is left trying to solve the case before the detectives. A gripping story you will not want to put down. Fans of The Great Alone and Educated will be interested in the story of strong willed Kya. Highly recommended.

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Review: The Opposite of Hate: A Field Guide to Repairing Our Humanity

The Opposite of Hate: A Field Guide to Repairing Our Humanity The Opposite of Hate: A Field Guide to Repairing Our Humanity by Sally Kohn
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

AUDIOBOOK FORMAT:

I thought that this book was so fascinating! This topic is so relevant in the current climate. As a progressive liberal myself I find it hard to maintain my cool around Trump supporters too. Kohn lays out some very essential and clear steps to better handle these scenarios and lends real life examples to prove it can be done. Her research is extensive and impressive. A lot of her stories that she relays are very hard to hear but in the end the book is uplifting and motivating. Sally Kohn does an amazing job reading her book for the audiobook. She brings out the humor and nuance of her conversational (at times) style of writing. Sometimes, she got a little academic, quoting research studies and the like. Other times, she reads it very conversationally so that it feels like you and her are sitting down with a coffee for an in-depth coffee talk with a friend. I really liked this book and I think it's a very important topic that should be addressed today.

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Review of "For the Love of Books: A Celebration of the Written Word" by Graham Tarrant

For the Love of Books: A Celebration of the Written Word For the Love of Books: A Celebration of the Written Word by Graham Tarrant
My rating: 2 of 5 stars

Disclaimer: I received an advance copy of this title from NetGalley in exchange for a fair and honest review.

I found a hard time getting into this book. It's not laid out in the narrative form, but rather in segments of different factoids. Tarrant lists a ton of very interesting facts about authors that I had not been aware of prior. At times, I felt that the way the information was stated was confusing and redundant. A lot of statements like, "arguably the best novel of 'insert time period/country' of all time" or "well-known" which I feel are quite subjective statements. It was laid out like a textbook but I questioned the authoritativeness of the author. Not meant as an insult, this book would be a great "bathroom book". It can easily be picked up and put down whenever. I could see this book being a great gift for a literary lover who is super hard to buy for or a graduation gift for an English major.

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Review of "I'll Be Gone in the Dark: One Woman's Obsessive Search for the Golden State Killer" by Michelle McNamara

I'll Be Gone in the Dark: One Woman's Obsessive Search for the Golden State Killer I'll Be Gone in the Dark: One Woman's Obsessive Search for the Golden State Killer by Michelle McNamara
My rating: 2 of 5 stars

I love my true crime documentaries. I can sit and watch doc and doc on Charles Manson, Ted Bundy, Jim Jones, etc., and not get scared to death. I love horror films and nothing is scarier than true horror. However, finally listening to Michelle McNamara's piece on the Golden State Killer, I've realized that I'm not interested in true crime in the written word. Or perhaps, this book in particular didn't spark my interest. I think that if I saw this content in a visual context (luckily HBO is working on a docu-series on the GSK), I might be more interested. What McNamara has done with this work is lay out years and years of intense research in the hunt to identify the man who raped and murdered too many people in the late seventies-early eighties. I respect her diligence in reaching out to a multitude of research points. In her full credit, this book was published after her passing, so she is not responsible for the final layout of the book itself. I felt overwhelmed with the data and I couldn't follow the narrative. This audiobook version included an appendix featuring an article published after McNamara's passing and after the first printing of her book. Overall, I see where the appeal could be with this book, but just did not appeal to me.

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Review of "The Greenprint: Plant-Based Diet, Best Body, Better World" by Marco Borges

The Greenprint: Plant-Based Diet, Best Body, Better World The Greenprint: Plant-Based Diet, Best Body, Better World by Marco Borges
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Borges created this truly beautifully designed book that explains in details the benefits of changing to a plant-based diet. Like Borges, I also transitioned to a completely plant-based diet rather than suddenly making the change. I became a pescatarian (vegetarian + fish) in 2002, then I gave up gluten and dairy in 2016 (due to illness...leading to a celiac diagnosis), and finally giving up fish and eggs to be full "vegan" in 2017. Borges presents 22 "rules" to begin living a healthier livestyle, including transitioning to a full plant-based diet. He goes through all the health and other medical benefits associated with eating plant-based while also debunking myths commonly brought up against a vegan lifestyle. Borges also includes a ton of yummy and easy recipes in the back of the book for those wanting to try out plant-based meals without knowing where to start. I highly recommend this book for anyone interested in the either the health benefits, environmental benefits or animal welfare benefits of a plant-based diet. I also recommend this book to current vegetarians or flex-itarians who might want to try going completely plant-based.

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Review of "The Great Alone" by Kristin Hannah

The Great Alone The Great Alone by Kristin Hannah
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I had not read Hannah's previous novel, The Nightingale, but it was such a huge hit at the library where I work. When this book was released, I only heard amazing things. I had received an ARC of it long ago from a conference but I had not gotten to reading it until now. I'm not normally someone who leans towards family dramas but this story drew me in from the beginning. Hannah's style of writing is so beautiful and she weaves the plot around this wonderful character development of her protagonist, Leni. This novel begins with 13 year old Leni and her family leaving Seattle for the great wilderness of Alaska. Her father, Ernt Allbright, was a POW in Vietnam and he yearned for the isolation that Alaska could bring. His friend in the war left him a plot of land in the small town of Conic in his will. The Allbrights learn the hard way how to survive in this dangerous and beautiful landscape. The novel follows Leni through the pivotal years of her late teens and early 20s. This book is a heart-breaking, thrilling, dramatic, heart-stopping epic while also giving us a love story that your own heart will ache for. I loved every second of this book. I was entranced in the storyline and I needed to know what happened to these characters. The ones I admired, hated and adored. This book would appeal to those who enjoy epic family dramas, readers of Celeste Ng and those who loved Tara Westover's memoir Educated. Highly highly recommended.

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Review of "The World According to Fannie Davis: My Mother's Life in the Detroit Numbers" by Bridgett M. Davis

The World According to Fannie Davis: My Mother's Life in the Detroit Numbers The World According to Fannie Davis: My Mother's Life in the Detroit Numbers by Bridgett M. Davis
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

In this memoir by Bridgett Davis, she focuses the story around her mother Fannie Davis and her numbers business in the city of Detroit. The numbers was a term for a daily underground and technically illegal lottery played mostly by the black community. I was unaware of this term or business before reading this book. I found this story very interesting and somewhat inspiring. It is a tale of a woman's initiative to create a business out of nothing and make her own money. Especially in the time period of this memoir, it's an extraordinary tale of female empowerment. I also loved the dynamic between Bridgett and Fannie, mother and daughter. Recommended for fans of memoirs of strong women and mother/daughter stories. Also, recommended for current or former residents of Detroit; you'll be able to relate to this story or understand it more deeply than others.

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Review of "The Latte Factor: Why You Don't Have to Be Rich to Live Rich" by David Bach

The Latte Factor: Why You Don't Have to Be Rich to Live Rich The Latte Factor: Why You Don't Have to Be Rich to Live Rich by David Bach
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

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This is the first personal finance book I've read in this particular format. David Bach tells a parable of 27-year old Zoey who feels lost and seeks guidance for her future. Zoey travels from Brooklyn to the Freedom Tower in Manhattan everyday for work. Her job demands around 50 hours a week but it doesn't ever seem to pay enough to keep up her lifestyle. She doesn't live extravagantly; she has a roommate, she doesn't have a car, she doesn't travel, etc. However, she still has a mountain of debt in credit cards and student loans. Whenever she finds something she'd love to do like traveling or purchasing a beautiful piece of art, she spits out the common refrain, "I can't afford it". She ends up meeting a man of seemingly humble means who teaches her the three simple lessons to financial freedom.

I believe I had first heard about David Bach on one of my favorite podcasts, "HerMoney" with Jean Chatzky on Episode 63 about his 18-month sabbatical. I didn't quite relate to that story of his, but this parable of Zoey did speak to me. While I am not 27, I am close to that age and she has many of the same spending habits that catch me up when trying to save. Bach lays out three very simple keys to success. They seem commonsense but many many people don't realize they aren't doing these things and they should!

I'm a huge fan of personal finance books and I would highly recommend this fast but motivating book. Fans of Jean Chatzky or Gaby Dunn would love this book. Honestly, immediately after reading the galley, I pre-ordered the book and signed up for follow-up materials on Bach's website. I also checked out two of his previous books, "The Automatic Millionaire" and "Smart Couples Finish Rich", from the library to read next. No more lattes for me! ;)

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Review of "The Power" by Naomi Alderman

The Power The Power by Naomi Alderman
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This book is a fascinating social commentary on gender roles and role reversal. Adlerman begins and ends the book with correspondence between Naomi and her friend Neil. Naomi has read Neil's manuscript on the history of life before the cataclysm and she's providing feedback. The meat of the book is split up into chapters by the different main characters; Margot, Allie, Roxy, & Tunde. Alderman introduces us to this dystopian world where woman are finding a power within themselves. A power to create electricity from their body and use it (essentially) as a weapon. Quickly, the world becomes a completely different place as women can fight back against sexual and physical aggressors. Ultimately, the world becomes an unrecognizable place. A wonderfully plot-driven work with intertwining character stories. Fans of The Handmaid's Tale will enjoy the way Alderman's book makes you question all your thoughts on the "war between the sexes". Highly Recommended.

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Review of "I'm Just a Person" by Tig Notaro

I'm Just a Person I'm Just a Person by Tig Notaro
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I love Tig's dry, sardonic humor. I was aware of her prior health problems from her comedy specials and she prominently displayed her double mastectomy on her HBO special "Boyish Girl Interrupted". However, even her stand-up specials didn't tell the full extent of the horrors that she endured in 2012. This book details everything and most importantly, we are able to learn her feelings throughout. The title of her book perfectly encapsulates what I feel her intentions were in writing this book. The media lifts celebrities up on pedestals and one could even compare how we treat them to how we worship the gods. BUT, Tig is making it clear that she is just a person, like you and me. Even celebrities can get sick, have cancer, lose a loved one, go through a breakup. We usually don't get to hear these personal stories, nor should we unless the person feels that they should share. Tig's story is truly heartbreaking, and yet she proved to keep her sense of humor throughout. Even when she dealt with debilitating depression, she would find her way back to humor. It's an inspirational story to anyone who is currently going through a life-threatening illness, "battling" cancer and/or mourning the loss of a parent or other loved one. Her story can speak to so many people and she is a beautiful person for sharing it with the world.

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Review of "Life Will Be the Death of Me: . . . and You Too!" by Chelsea Handler

Life Will Be the Death of Me: . . . and You Too! Life Will Be the Death of Me: . . . and You Too! by Chelsea Handler
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I'll start by stating that this book is extremely different from any other Chelsea Handler book I've read in the past. I've read all her earliest books and loved those. Her sense of humor is wonderful and she's so blunt and honest. I'm also a fan of her Netflix shows/documentaries. I've been following her career for a while. This book took me by surprise. A pleasant surprise.
Chelsea Handler produced this crossover memoir/self-help book about her journey with her therapist, Dan Siegal, into letting herself grieve for her brother who died over thirty years ago. She uncovered a side of herself that her fans have not heard yet. This is her most forthcoming and honest work thus far. I was touched reading this book. Uncovering the band-aid from this huge loss she suffered as a child, she exposes the wound and does the work to heal herself. She recognizes that it is a process and she'll be working on learning new behaviors for a long time. If anyone has worked with a therapist specializing in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, you'll see the techniques used with Chelsea throughout this memoir. This book is recommended for fans of Chelsea Handler (although major heads up that it is NOT a humor book), those who have suffered the loss of a sibling at a young age or in adulthood, or those who are grieving a death of any sort. This is my favorite piece of writing of Chelsea's and I look forward to seeing her upcoming documentary with Netflix on white privilege.

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Review of "Inheritance: A Memoir of Genealogy, Paternity, and Love" by Dani Shapiro

Inheritance: A Memoir of Genealogy, Paternity, and Love Inheritance: A Memoir of Genealogy, Paternity, and Love by Dani Shapiro
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

My boss recommended I read this book after mentioning my new found interest in genealogy and my holiday gift of a DNA test. Being a half-jew myself, hearing Dani Shapiro's story was especially interesting. Shapiro found out that, after being raised Orthodox Jewish by her two very prominent figures of the Jewish community, she was only half Ashkenazi Jewish. The other half of her DNA was a mish-mash of Western European heritage, essentially a reasonable explanation for her coloring that surprised most people who learned she was Jewish growing up. A blonde, blue-eyed woman isn't typically assumed to be Jewish, let alone Orthodox. Dani may have felt different growing up but she never faulted in knowing her heritage. Yet, this DNA proved that she indeed did not know her heritage at all.
This story was both fascinating and haunting. One hopes to never have the same results that Dani Shapiro received from Ancestry.com. Her memoir is an investigation to find her true heritage and ultimately, what really constitutes as your origin story. Who is your family? Those who raised you, or those who created you? Anyone who has ever wanted to do an DNA test, was adopted, or questioned their parentage should read this book. Shapiro does an amazing job putting the reader in her shoes and allows her reactions and emotions to seep through. This story both breaks your heart and warms it.

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Review of "Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine" by Gail Honeyman

Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely FineEleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

We are introduced to Eleanor's quirks right from the beginning. She is a self-proclaimed loner. Stating "I don't need anyone else --there's no big hole in my life, no missing piece of my own particular puzzle. I am a self-contained entity." However, from that moment on, we discover that her life is more complicated than she presents and she needs more than she asks. Honeyman's story is of a scarred woman, inside and out, who slowly is able to make the changes in her life to let people in. She finds an unlikely friend in her coworker, Raymond, who supports her throughout the novel to become stronger and stronger. Eleanor proves that anyone can overcome a terrible past and build a strong community around themselves. This novel also proves the argument that you are able to choose your family.
I found Honeyman's debut novel to be both endearing and heartbreaking. While laugh-out loud funny in some moments, she also introduced heart-wrenching moments that caused me to well up with tears. While distinctly different than Fredrik Backman's writing style, fans of A Man Called Ove will enjoy this book starring another curmudgeon. I'm very much looking forward to whatever Gail Honeyman brings us next!

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Review of "Lessons From Lucy: The Simple Joys of an Old, Happy Dog" by Dave Barry

Lessons From Lucy: The Simple Joys of an Old, Happy DogLessons From Lucy: The Simple Joys of an Old, Happy Dog by Dave Barry
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Rating: 4.5

This was my first Dave Barry book. I know he has a reputation of being a wonderful humorist and his books line the shelves of our 800s section in the library. So my expectations were set pretty high comparatively to other humorists I have read; Mindy Kaling, Jenny Lawson, B. J. Novak. I also knew that he was especially popular for the baby boomer generation. As a millennial myself, I was curious if his humor would be too specific for a different generation than myself. I was delighted to find that his humor was accessible to all ages (well maybe PG-13).

"Lessons from Lucy" was not the traditional humorist essay book. It was more aligned with the self-help genre but from the viewpoint of a beloved humorist. Dave Barry begins his book explaining his love for the dog species and the dogs he has "owned" in the past. Lucy, his current dog, spurred this book being she inspired him to be better in his life. Each lesson, as common sense as they might be, caused Barry to analyze his own life and ways he could improve. These lessons are ones that everyone could use reminding themselves from time to time. Filled with the many hijinks of Lucy and the dogs of Barry's past, any dog owner could relate to these scenarios and laugh out loud in agreement of just how wonderful and special these animals are in our lives.

Recommended for fans of Dave Barry (obviously), all dog lovers, fans of the self-help genre and really anyone looking for a feel good book. A fast and enjoyable read.

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Review of "The Dreamers" by Karen Thompson Walker

The DreamersThe Dreamers by Karen Thompson Walker
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This novel, as well as her debut novel, The Age of Miracles , spawned from a single question; What if? Karen Thompson Walker has a distinct style of writing. Her chapters are generally quite short, usually only a page or two. She also tends to use a lot of short sentences rather than ones with lots of clauses and adjectives. However, she is amazing at allowing the reader to see in the character's point of view. You are transported to this world, a realistic world where fantastical events transpire. In "The Dreamers", there is a mysterious illness that falls upon the students at a California college. The small town surrounding campus is soon falling down with the same illness, an illness that puts the victim into a deep sleep. In this comatose-like sleep, the sick are thrown into a world of dreams. This unknown illness wrecks havoc on this sleepy college town.
Karen Thompson Walker introduces us to many different characters, ranging from the college students to children and their parents. She intertwines their story lines effortlessly, not unlike Station Eleven. There are a lot of similarities between this book and Mandel's debut novel. However, the ways these women interlace the character's storylines are very different. While Mandel's book is segmented into sections of several chapters within the same storyline, Walker chops up the short chapters with paragraphs from different storylines. Ultimately, Walker brings the character's storylines together more quickly than Mandel did.
I would recommend this book to fans of Station Eleven, those interested in interpretations of dreams, and fans of sci fi and books featuring contagions.

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Review of "Squeezed: Why Our Families Can't Afford America" by Alissa Quart

Squeezed: Why Our Families Can't Afford AmericaSqueezed: Why Our Families Can't Afford America by Alissa Quart
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Alissa Quart does an excellent job of profiling American families from all ranges of socioeconomic backgrounds who are all feeling squeezed right now. The majority of the families she interviews have children but they range from; single parent homes, families with children with disabilities, families below the poverty line to families struggling to remain in the lower upper class. In the introduction of the book, Quart introduces us to Michelle Belmont, a technology librarian, whose family was struggling to just remain in the middle class. She borrowed to get an education required for her career, both bachelor and masters degrees, and when her son came along, they owed the hospital over $20,000 in medical bills. Quart shows right from the beginning of the book how easily a family, or even a single person, can get over their heads in debt.

Quart interviews family after family in the subsequent chapters but the message remains the same throughout. Over and over, these Americans are blaming themselves for their predicament. They blame themselves for drowning in debt, while they are merely trying to take care of their family. Quart lists to "stop placing blame" as the first step individuals can take in action to stop feeling squeezed. While this book is slightly skewed to focus on those families who may be considered "middle-class", Alissa even reveals her personal story with feeling squeezed. As a journalist, she goes through the bumps of her career and how she comes out on the other side.

While I don't think this book gives all the answers for how we as Americans can fix this issue of feeling financially squeezed and burdened in our lives. However, she does demonstrate that this is more of a universal problem that we may have thought. You are not alone in your struggle. It's the system that is the problem.

I would recommend this book for any fans of books on economics or sociology. If you enjoyed "Evicted" by Matthew Desmond, you'll enjoy this middle-class version of that book. She does get a little political in areas discussing the influences of the past and current Presidential Administration, but overall a very good insight into a universal issue plaguing middle-class America today.

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Review of "Parkland: Birth of a Movement" by Dave Cullen

Parkland: Birth of a MovementParkland: Birth of a Movement by Dave Cullen
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Rating: 4.5/5

I was alive when the Columbine shooting occurred in 1999, but at the young age of 11, I could not yet grasp exactly why this happened, what actually occurred, how it has impacted generations of people, and ultimately how it could have been prevented. Dave Cullen, the author of the book "Columbine", was down in the front lines after the shooting. He saw the massacre, the death, the utter grief. He saw how it effected the students of Columbine High School, the parents of the students and the surrounding areas. He also monitored exactly how the media responded to the event and how long the anger and demand for change echoed in the social conversation. Cullen was also there when, so soon after the execution of 13 lives on April 20th, the blazing flames demanding gun safety now had died down to a flicker.


On February 14th, 2018, I was at work and I think one of my friends posted a link to CNN on Facebook, unfolding the series of events that were occurring in real time that afternoon. My heart sunk to the floor. At this time, I had been soaking up the impact of mass shootings after mass shootings year after year in everywhere from an elementary school to a movie theater. It had already felt like there was no safe place anymore. Working in a public library since I was in college, I had always thought a little about the possibility of an active shooter. But the mere thought of that happening shook me to my core and scared me more than any of the horror films I watch regularly. To hear that an unknown number of children were dying at the hands of a man with a gun yet again just wrecked me. How many children must die before we can talk about gun safety in this country?


In Cullen's investigative work into Parkland, he breaks down the events in chronological order. He begins my introducing us to Jackie Corin, one of the members of March For Our Lives, in the prologue and then leads into how and why this movement began and exists. Cullen begins Chapter One with,


"Speed. That was the first answer to the question on everyone's lips when this movement erupted, suddenly and unexpectedly, just one day after the attack: 'Why this time?' They didn't wait a moment."

This is the perfect introduction to how this group of teenagers went from hiding under desks from a shooter, to being escorted out of the building by SWAT, to coordinating a huge rally in Washington D.C. mere weeks later. Cullen spends most of the book using exact quotes of the students themselves. Letting them speak for themselves, he lets them prove their competence. I knew how eloquent these kids were from watching their speeches and the town hall with Dana Loesch on CNN. However, Cullen gives the reader the whole background story of just how they were able to juggle school and organizing a nation-wide movement for gun safety.

The narrative of this book is a lot different from other investigative accounts that I've read in the past due to the extensive use of quotations in the teenage voice. The juxtaposition of the adolescent syntax, particularly in the exhaustive use of filler words, to the sheer amount of action they took and everything they were able to accomplish is astonishing. I have a Master's Degree and I don't think I could have the drive to achieve like they did. The author made it clear to the reader that these amazing people were truly just children in the end. They had to do their schoolwork and choose between extracurricular activities and activism (most of the time, they chose activism).

If you were at all interested in the story of the kids from March For Our Lives, you should read this book. It walks you through all the events you have seen on television but with the added bonus of the background scenes and all the work that led up to those moments. I was so inspired by these teenagers and I'm usually not that much of a fan of those aged between 12-24. They took this horrific incident and let it fuel action to make an actual change in the world. They didn't want to sit on their butts and send thoughts and prayers anymore. They wanted to fight for change. Yes, they are aware this is an ongoing battle, but Cullen communicates to the reader exactly the intentions of MFOL to continue fighting.

Jackie Corin said it best "...Nothing that's worth it is easy. So why would this be easy? We're going against the largest gun lobby in America. We could very well die trying to do this, but we could very well die not trying to do this, so why not die for something rather than for nothing."




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Review of "My Squirrel Days" by Ellie Kemper

My Squirrel DaysMy Squirrel Days by Ellie Kemper
My rating: 2 of 5 stars

What was this book meant to be? I feel so bad giving this book only 2 stars but for some reason I couldn't understand what this book was. Is it a memoir? Is it an autobiography? Is it a book of essays? I think that it was leaning more toward the latter but I honestly couldn't tell. That was the most confusing part to me and it really took away from my listening experience. Also, I thought listening to Ellie Kemper read her book would be a benefit as most comedians read their own books better than anyone else. However, I felt like it was another hindrance for my enjoyment of her writing. I like Ellie's acting and she is a very humorous person but this book didn't speak to me. I felt that this was an attempt to emulate Tiny Fey and Mindy Kaling and she failed to live up to either of these legends.

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Review: Nothing to See Here

Nothing to See Here by Kevin Wilson My rating: 5 of 5 stars View all my reviews